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Answers to a few questions!
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The use or selling or distribution of drugs is strictly prohibited. Anyone found to be in breach of this strict rule will be required to leave the venue immediately and will be barred from all future events. Any contribution to party costs will not be refunded.
We respect an individual’s choice, so a dedicated smoking area is provided, but smoking is banned from all other areas of the venue.
We do not sell alcohol but you are welcome to bring your own and store it in our kitchen fridge. Anyone who becomes strongly under the influence of alcohol and whose behaviour becomes offensive to others will be required to leave the venue immediately.
We are unable to provide overnight accommodation, but there are a number of reasonable priced hotels in the local area. An early booking with them is highly recommended.
There is plenty of free on street parking in local side roads. Please do park respectfully to our neighbours, and not over driveways or in designated residents' parking bays. There is no parking for guests allowed on the drive of the venue.
There are a small number of lockers for shared use at the direction of the individual organiser.
Yes, both a shower and a bathroom are available for your use. Toiletries are supplied free of charge.
Absolutely not. Parties are social events, where consenting adults can become more intimate if they wish. Guests are under no obligation at all to play, and some guests come along just to watch others, which is fine. If you are a couple we recommend that you discuss and agree your boundaries before you arrive to avoid any uncomfortable situations.
Different organisers have different rules on this, so it is best to check before attending. For house run events, we give you a numbered bag to store your clothes and offer a towel to wear round your waist as most guests undress/change into preferred attire on arrival. You may stay fully dressed if you wish but you must put your phone in a locker so we can be sure you are not discreetly filming or photographing during the event.

The House of Poitier always promotes safe sex, and at house run events we provide condoms at no extra cost. Ultimately the decision on how to practice sex is down to each guest. We do not accept any responsibility whatsoever for any intimate diseases that may be passed between guests, and ask guests to act maturely & responsibly and not engage in any play if you suspect or know you have any infection.

You can get FREE sexual health testing from your local hospital or clinic or online from shl.uk.

The general rule is ‘no’ as the privacy of all guests is of paramount importance. Guests are required to surrender any phones brought into the venue into the lockers provided. Most of us attend the house in secret, and we must not compromise anyones anonymity.
We do not charge ‘fees’ for entry to parties, but the costs of maintaining the house, heating, lighting, cleaning and refreshments are considerable. It is therefore usual to request a contribution from guests to defray these costs. The costs will vary from party to party depending upon the facilities on offer and will be published before each event.
No we do not have any membership requirements currently.
Firstly, visit the events page of this website and see which party catches your attention. If it is an independently hosted event, we will have posted some information or details given to us by the organiser of how to contact then to secure your party place. We are unable to confirm your attendance at any event that is not organised by us directly. If it is an event run by the House of Poitier, you can use the contact tab to email us for a place, or to ask any further questions..
Different events may have different themes and dress codes, so check with the organiser. However we must insist that in order to keep the venue discreet, and not alarm our neighbours that you are fully, and conservatively dressed when you enter and leave the house. You can get changed inside.

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Testimonials

YPT - Guest

Of all the parties and all the promoters Lady p and her friends are setting the highest standards!! Aside from the plethora of party organisers and potential party options and various venues that are becoming ever more available and flooding the market!! It is the House of Poitier and Lady P that lead the way and having attended various events all I can say is that life is about making memories that are purely precious and equally priceless!! Attend a party with Lady P and your memories will be all and more than most could ever imagine or dare to dream.

TCB - Guests

This was our first visit to HOP and it will not be our last! The host was warm and friendly and made us feel at ease. The house is very well set up, lots of playrooms and a great dungeon! Food, soft drinks, towels and condoms aplenty! Everything is well stocked for a great time - which we definitely had! Highly recommend HOP! Can't wait til the next time!

Mr T - Guest

Oh wow. Attended the House of Poitier Monday daytime event at Sutton house today with a dear girlfriend of ours. I didn't know what to expect but oh boy, what a great event. The lady hostesses make sure everyone is made welcome and know how to liven up the party. Met some lovely people and we both had such a great time. We will definitely be back. Highly recommended.

Mike - Guest

Visited a daytime party for the first time, excellent organisation, superb relaxed atmosphere and everyone was very friendly, with plenty of opportunities to play for those who wanted to.

BN - Monday Funday guest

My first visit to this party, I was nervous but all the hosts and guests made me feel at ease and I loved every minute, the whole morning flew by in a blur! The atmosphere was amazing and great food as well. I would happily go every Monday if I could! Thanks for a great Monday!

LucyLoveIt - Event Organiser

We have been hosting swingers parties at House of Poitier on a monthly basis for nearly 5 years. It’s a popular venue that is set up for adult parties. Reasonable rates and well maintained.

Phil - Guest

Had my 1st visit as a punter today to House of Poitier for Commuter Club. Two fun girls, the right number of guys, relaxed friendly atmosphere. Even a bukkake to finish. Great value for money. Def going again. Highly recommended.

Tom - Guest

House of Poitier is one of the friendliest, most welcoming clubs in the UK - and that is said with experience of numerous other venues. It has a quiet, faded elegance vibe with amazing staff and discretion is valued. Some amazing parties with some brilliant women. Has nice touches like food and drink throughout the party, relaxed atmosphere. You can find events to suit almost any kink here, absolutely recommend.

Surrey Dave 69

November’s brunch was the best ever. At least 8 or 9 ladies and a good group of very well behaved men made this such a fantastic way to spend a Thursday morning. There were more couple present than I’ve ever seen before and everyone mixed well with a lot of action throughout the four hours. Well done and I’m sure that I’m not the only one that hopes that at some time you start having these lunchtime events 2 or more times per month.

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