Etiquette & Rules

Each party organiser may have different etiquette and rules for their own parties which you should familiarise yourself with but there are some basics to which everyone should adhere.

If you feel you may be offended by expressions of sexual freedom, then our parties are definitely not for you.

The venue has a strict NO DRUGS policy, and anybody found using or selling drugs on site will be asked to leave and never to return.

The venue is considered a safe place in terms of discretion and anonymity and as such we DO NOT allow photography or videography when other partygoers are around.

We do not tolerate disrespect to any gender, sexuality or kinks. If someone else's preferences are not for you that is fine, but the House is a safe space for all to express themselves and we will not allow open prejudice that makes other guests feel uncomfortable.

Communication and Consent are paramount to the enjoyment of all guests. We ask that you treat other guests with respect and acknowledge their boundaries at all times. Ask politely if you would like to socialise with them and accept it gracefully if someone declines your request.

Whether you are new to the adult party scene or have been enjoying it for many years, you are never under any obligation to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.

We DO NOT allow CHEWING GUM on the premises due to significant costly damage to furnishings. Whilst everyone appreciates fresh breath, we provide mouthwash in the bathrooms and mints on arrival.

We do appreciate the tolerance of our neighbours but ask you to help us be respectful in a few ways... DO NOT park across driveways, in private bays, on grass verges or in any antisocial manner. When you arrive at, and leave the venue please do so QUIETLY especially if late at night. If you are waiting for a taxi for example, please wait inside until it arrives. This is a residential area and we must all consider that if we wish the venue to continue.

We provide a social environment where you can simply relax and chat with like-minded people, or enjoy the company of others in our many play rooms if you want to take things further. Please remember that “no” by anyone absolutely means “NO”, but a polite refusal is always better received than a rude one.

If you feel someone is being overly attentive or makes you feel uncomfortable, please let the party organiser know straight away and they will attempt to manage the situation without fuss. Be COURTEOUS and POLITE when looking to engage with potential play partners, MANNERS cost nothing and are always appreciated.

Many, if not all of our guests are here in secret from their everyday life, so please remember what happens in here, stays in here. If you see someone 'on the outside' that you have met in here, it is the correct etiquette that you should not approach them or even acknowledge that you have met them as you do not know who they are with and you must not risk 'outing' them. It is not rude to do this, but will be appreciated.

Anyone who causes disruption of any kind may be asked to leave to ensure the enjoyment of everyone else.

And this is very important - good body HYGIENE is essential, we have a shower for all to use and toiletries are available for free. Some party organisers will provide towels or bring one along yourself and shower before, during and after playing if needed. Your play partner will appreciate it!